Comments on: What If I Just Let Nothing Happen? http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/09/what-if-i-just-let-nothing-happen/ sex, love, and take out in NYC Sat, 22 Nov 2008 23:32:04 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2 By: iheartthirty http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/09/what-if-i-just-let-nothing-happen/#comment-235 iheartthirty Wed, 13 Feb 2008 01:05:08 +0000 http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/09/what-if-i-just-let-nothing-happen/#comment-235 Oy, this is all I've been thinking about over the last few days ... and it was made worse by sitting at a coffee shop next to the most well-behaved, adorable little girl who made my ovaries hurt. Anyway, I think the way I'm leaning toward is just being more intentional rather than What The Heck about the whole thing. Like, embracing & being comfortable with the fact that home and family are things I want rather than hiding behind my tough-career-chick fantasy. I dunno. It's tricky, tricky, tricky. Oy, this is all I’ve been thinking about over the last few days … and it was made worse by sitting at a coffee shop next to the most well-behaved, adorable little girl who made my ovaries hurt. Anyway, I think the way I’m leaning toward is just being more intentional rather than What The Heck about the whole thing. Like, embracing & being comfortable with the fact that home and family are things I want rather than hiding behind my tough-career-chick fantasy. I dunno. It’s tricky, tricky, tricky.

]]> By: Thelockeness http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/09/what-if-i-just-let-nothing-happen/#comment-232 Thelockeness Tue, 12 Feb 2008 21:58:23 +0000 http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/09/what-if-i-just-let-nothing-happen/#comment-232 I tend to believe in the "it'll happen when it's supposed to" theory. But I think that's just because I'm lazy. Although it could be the way that you present yourself when you're not trying to impress anyone. In this city of posers, desperate wanna-bes, and the tragically hip, I think the mens genuinely like a "real" gal. But what the hell do I know. I'm dating someone who had a crush on me in jr. high. We were introduced a few months ago. I tend to believe in the “it’ll happen when it’s supposed to” theory.

But I think that’s just because I’m lazy.

Although it could be the way that you present yourself when you’re not trying to impress anyone.
In this city of posers, desperate wanna-bes, and the tragically hip, I think the mens genuinely like a “real” gal.

But what the hell do I know.
I’m dating someone who had a crush on me in jr. high.
We were introduced a few months ago.

]]> By: Young1 http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/09/what-if-i-just-let-nothing-happen/#comment-229 Young1 Tue, 12 Feb 2008 10:48:23 +0000 http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/09/what-if-i-just-let-nothing-happen/#comment-229 I split up with mine on christmas eve and i spent the holiday season in part misery but part drunken state! Doing whatever the hell i wanted. So for new years i didn't make any resolutions as they only get broken the day after when you are not so pissed and considering i worked on NYE i didn't see the point in making pointless promises. As much as i would love to find Mr Right as the habitual valentines leech likes to call it i want to think about ME! I am doing better than i ever have in college and even though work is stressful i am getting on with it. Just ME and noone else to worry about. I split up with mine on christmas eve and i spent the holiday season in part misery but part drunken state!
Doing whatever the hell i wanted. So for new years i didn’t make any resolutions as they only get broken the day after when you are not so pissed and considering i worked on NYE i didn’t see the point in making pointless promises.
As much as i would love to find Mr Right as the habitual valentines leech likes to call it i want to think about ME!
I am doing better than i ever have in college and even though work is stressful i am getting on with it. Just ME and noone else to worry about.

]]> By: chevy http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/09/what-if-i-just-let-nothing-happen/#comment-228 chevy Tue, 12 Feb 2008 02:27:35 +0000 http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/09/what-if-i-just-let-nothing-happen/#comment-228 you sound like you're rocking in the same boat as my big sis. She really would love to meet a great guy and settle down but the effort it takes is sometimes demanding or she's bored with the same old haunts. You're right, you need to switch it up a bit and actively pursue finding a catch...easier said than done, I know, I know... you sound like you’re rocking in the same boat as my big sis. She really would love to meet a great guy and settle down but the effort it takes is sometimes demanding or she’s bored with the same old haunts. You’re right, you need to switch it up a bit and actively pursue finding a catch…easier said than done, I know, I know…

]]> By: 20-Something http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/09/what-if-i-just-let-nothing-happen/#comment-227 20-Something Mon, 11 Feb 2008 23:00:36 +0000 http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/09/what-if-i-just-let-nothing-happen/#comment-227 You know the old adage, "You'll meet someone when you least expect it." So, my advice is to continue to put your best foot forward (you never know who you'll meet, whether it's for a job or relationship), but don't focus all your energy on trying to find a man. Enjoy your life as it comes...cause being single is pretty fabulous. Really, we only spend a short amount of adult years without a relationship. So, enjoy it while you can, girlfriend! ;) You know the old adage, “You’ll meet someone when you least expect it.” So, my advice is to continue to put your best foot forward (you never know who you’ll meet, whether it’s for a job or relationship), but don’t focus all your energy on trying to find a man. Enjoy your life as it comes…cause being single is pretty fabulous. Really, we only spend a short amount of adult years without a relationship. So, enjoy it while you can, girlfriend! ;)

]]> By: meleah rebeccah http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/09/what-if-i-just-let-nothing-happen/#comment-226 meleah rebeccah Mon, 11 Feb 2008 20:29:19 +0000 http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/09/what-if-i-just-let-nothing-happen/#comment-226 "I’m doing whatever the fuck I want, and this does not put me in a good mindset to meet someone " Thats exactly where I am in life.... “I’m doing whatever the fuck I want, and this does not put me in a good mindset to meet someone ”

Thats exactly where I am in life….

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