Comments on: The Relationship Game http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/21/the-relationship-game/ sex, love, and take out in NYC Sun, 23 Nov 2008 00:27:53 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2 By: iheartthirty http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/21/the-relationship-game/#comment-287 iheartthirty Tue, 26 Feb 2008 07:50:35 +0000 http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/21/the-relationship-game/#comment-287 once again, I'm so totally there with you - right down to the recreational but not championship activity. the way I've thought about it is I *have* learned how to be a friend by growing my friendships, how to see past the wining & dining and realize that cozying up in a coffee shop on Saturday is what I consider romantic (something I have not done with a guy), and like meleah said, I haven't stayed with someone only to be in a relationship. small mercies darlin'. but they'll all be worth it. once again, I’m so totally there with you - right down to the recreational but not championship activity. the way I’ve thought about it is I *have* learned how to be a friend by growing my friendships, how to see past the wining & dining and realize that cozying up in a coffee shop on Saturday is what I consider romantic (something I have not done with a guy), and like meleah said, I haven’t stayed with someone only to be in a relationship.

small mercies darlin’. but they’ll all be worth it.

]]> By: so@24 http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/21/the-relationship-game/#comment-276 so@24 Fri, 22 Feb 2008 23:54:53 +0000 http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/21/the-relationship-game/#comment-276 Ahhhh, the relationship game. I'm red shirtting. Ahhhh, the relationship game.

I’m red shirtting.

]]> By: meleah rebeccah http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/21/the-relationship-game/#comment-274 meleah rebeccah Fri, 22 Feb 2008 15:30:51 +0000 http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/21/the-relationship-game/#comment-274 Great Metphor....and I completely agree: "And the longer you keep playing, the harder it is to get scouts to take a new look at you" Um. yeah...that's about where I am now....and somehow I have entered the Cougar Category of women. YIKES. ....at least I didnt say with a guy just to be in a relationship. Great Metphor….and I completely agree:

“And the longer you keep playing, the harder it is to get scouts to take a new look at you”

Um. yeah…that’s about where I am now….and somehow I have entered the Cougar Category of women. YIKES.

….at least I didnt say with a guy just to be in a relationship.

]]> By: Passionista http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/21/the-relationship-game/#comment-273 Passionista Fri, 22 Feb 2008 15:16:00 +0000 http://www.exposednyc.com/2008/02/21/the-relationship-game/#comment-273 First of all, I love your metaphor. Second, I could sit here and tell you that it will happen when you least expect it and blah blah blah, but as someone who is trying to stay in the game for that championship win, I thikn it takes a lot more active work. Maybe you just need a change of scene, but make sure you are always aware of the entire field, you never know where those scouts might be! First of all, I love your metaphor. Second, I could sit here and tell you that it will happen when you least expect it and blah blah blah, but as someone who is trying to stay in the game for that championship win, I thikn it takes a lot more active work. Maybe you just need a change of scene, but make sure you are always aware of the entire field, you never know where those scouts might be!

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