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Category Archives: Life

Just Be Yourself (As Long as That Self is Perfect)

One of the toughest parts about dating is how many generally accepted rules there are that are completely contradictory. Bright Lights, Date City started an interesting discussion recently on being THAT girl.
People are constantly saying that you need to find someone who loves you for you, flaws and all, but Bachelor Travis Stork just wrote […]

…Not Exactly A Hallmark Card

There is one thing worse than a walk of shame- that lasts longer, is more visible, and almost impossible to deny…
a hickey.
The only more visible manifestation of sex I can think of is a pregnant woman, which is on a whole ‘nother level. A bruised neck just reeks of immaturity and irresponsibility- a souvenir […]

If You Believe It, He Will Call

What strange self-delusion is it that has me hanging on to hope of hearing from Manning again? I told myself after the last time I saw him- the night of the Giants playoff game- that I wouldn’t let myself get upset about not hearing from him until after the Super Bowl.
What makes me think my life […]

Because I Said So, That’s Why

It’s always tough to come across a subject or a feeling that you can’t describe, especially when it’s the final blow in your closing argument.
I spent a recent evening out with a male colleague who I’ve known for a while, but haven’t had many in-depth conversations with. Over a couple beers, business talk turned […]

The Magic of Snow and Love

There’s something magical about snow. I don’t even like it much, but the whole idea of every flake being different and every kid staring wide eyed out the window at their “first snow” gives it an element that is not of this world, one that even tramping through ugly Manhattan sludge can’t tarnish.
Love is […]

When All Else Fails, Lists Are Fun

There are some songs that are perfect to blare during the pre-date ritual of getting ready, songs that kick your ass into a higher gear at the gym, and songs to cry your eyes out to through a break-up. Then there are the chocolate-covered oyster, dropped in a champagne glass, scented with pheromones songs […]

Eat, Blog, Love

One of my girlfriends said something to me yesterday that really struck a chord. As I was retelling the story of going out with Manning and maligning my urge to make any sort of contact, be it smoke signals or text messages, she stopped me and said “Stop analyzing and just tell me what […]

Gone Too Young, Forgotten Too Soon

Today we lost a talented and beautiful man, and I’m holding tight to my copy of Ten Things I Hate About You. You can find a touching personal tribute from Chelsea Talks Smack here.
Every bit of publicity and attention to his death is valid and well deserved, and I wouldn’t dream of taking it […]

Forget Red & Blue, Do I Live in a Date State?

As much as I love dating advice that I get from friends around the country, I really believe that regional norms have a large influence. What personality traits come to mind when I mention Southern California (laid back? superficial?), Texas (hospitality? family values?), or New York City (rude? fast-paced?)?
The factors that influence where a […]

Sometimes Hindsight Can Be Hazy

I would love to see the thought process that our brain goes through when we’ve been alone for a while. Some productive people fill their hours with working out, working hard, working on themselves. I’m not one of these people.
Others bounce from one relationship to the next, racking up more rebounds than Dennis Rodman. […]

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